As for the male/female submission/acceptance rates, I believe that while there will always be varying degrees of bias in the hearts of men (and women), a good set of quatrains beats a good set of balls/breasts anyday.
Shaun:
Having long believed your picture was actually your own image, I was impressed when you revealed your pursuit of fatherhood.
Best of luck in your marriage -- your chosen one will be lucky, indeed.
-LR