It's your site Alex and you can do things however you want. You have done just fine without my help (smile) If you don't want to judge blind, then that's fine, you don't have to. I am getting mixed messages I think. My post was answering what I thought was your request for "preferences" and specifically removed any past judging (including Catherine's and Gail's) in the comment. Therefore, when Cathy named me as a "whisperer" I felt that was inappropriate because I was not whispering to anyone or beating her up or any such thing and Nemo happened to agree with me. I had not (and have not) read the mile long thread (who has that kind of time?) to see that I was just trodding in the same old shit. My bad, I guess. Never mind. I will quit now. I just hate being mis-judged. Have a great summer everyone
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