I think being tough for the sake of being tough is a pretty ridiculous pattern of behavior, and, imo, pretty culturally centered. Anyone here post on Alsop? The "shark tank." Absolute silliness. Plus the website didn't bump up poems that were commented on. I think the real risks here or anywhere are 1) just being too timid to be honest, and the instinct to keep your friends and 2) getting used to a particular voice, whether you like it or not, you get comfortable with who you're always around~ not quite like telling inside jokes, but close.
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