Anne, I think you misunderstand me. I'm not arguing in favor of treating women like animals or mere sex objects. I'm questioning your assumption that a man who "likes it" a particular way (this way, that way, in an airplane, on a trapeze, whatever) is a misogynist. (At least, that's what I got from your post - sorry if I've misread.) A person's likes and dislikes, IMO, are much more complicated than that. You can't just say to yourself, "Intellectually, morally, I believe such-and-such, so from here on in, I resolve to like sex this way, as it's more compatible with my world view." It just doesn't work that way. That's all I'm saying.
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