I have heard male evangelicals talk about their love of Jesus (to the point of tears) more than their love of the Father or the Holy Spirit. I suppose that because Jesus is the Lord any kind of homoerotic tinge is removed. But is it? I do think that men have a harder time talking about their love of one another than women do. I often used to see male Indian students holding hands as they walked to class. It's a custom of friendship, I suppose. Men do seem to a bit more frequently huggers of each other than they were in the past. There's always this:
https://poets.org/poem/hundred-collars