[Anne Bryant-Hamon]

Whoa, whoa, whoa.

See, that's the judgmental thing I was talking about last night. Sexual preferences are not about morality or political correctness. They just are. Some people are just wired one way or another; this makes the light go on, that does not, and that's just a physiological reality.

Rose,

I submit to you that there is not a human being on earth who is not "judgemental" about many things. Sometimes we call it 'opinionated'. Other times, the cry of 'judgemental' goes forth - usually when we hold a differing opinion than the one stated.

For myself, I feel disrespected if a man can only think of me as a sex object or a type of animal. If that makes me judgemental, then okay. That doesn't mean I don't like various sexual positions. But this poem clearly has some anger/disrepect issues implied throughout. It's not just a playful sex poem.

Anne