Wow. There is a lot of good advice here.
I'm actually pretty involved in the local scene here in Dayton, Ohio. I have a reading scheduled at a local coffee shop in March, and I'm already a member of the Ohio Poetry Association. A sonnet of mine has actually been selected to open the next issue of their journal, Common Threads.
For me, it's a matter of time. I'm a resident physician, so free hours are sparse; days off few and far between. I'd love to do more face-to-face events: readings in other cities, book fairs. But between work and my family, it's difficult, and I was hoping there was more I could do online.
But all the advice I got here was very enlightening, and I appreciate it. I will do my best to do the things recommended, I especially want to do more readings around Ohio. And I have considered changing my name to Cope or Stallings
I'd like to get involved here, you all seem like a great bunch. I'm more into sharing my poetry than workshopping it, and I actually have a couple of poetry writing circles here in Dayton that meet monthly. But the truth is I love talking poetry, sharing poetry. So that being said, I'm encouraged by the outpouring of helpful responses this received, and I'm going to make an effort to contribute here.
Thanks again everyone!
Jake